05 August 2025

A gathering of old friends

 

I was feeling the kind of weariness
that doesn’t rub or sleep off.
The kind that closes my eyes
in the middle of whatever I am doing
be it writing or listening or watching—
when my friend Paul called.  He and his wife,
toddler, and young son could stop by and visit
on their way back to Poland where they live.
 
I woke up in a flash to dash around my home
and pick up the things that were out of place
or harmful to young ones.  Half my weariness
vanished in anticipation, and all left with
their warm welcome and the cool winter air
when I opened the door.  We talked
around the quiet sweetness of the children
occupied with colored pencils and paper.
 
Elwira had finished all the requirements
for her doctorate and was giving a paper
in North Carolina. Paul was visiting his father
and our old Quaker meeting.  I was writing poetry
in and about my retirement community.  We talked
about our old Quaker friends and then turned

to politics.  We agreed on the dangers. 

We were all experiencing immovable MAGA politics.
 
We talked past time for them to leave, so we rushed
on coats, packed away photos, and hugged at the door.
What good medicine they were!  I carried my joy and 
stayed wide awake through dinner and a dinner program. 
New friends and acquaintances make me welcome,
but there is nothing like old-time friends to infuse
a tired spirit with love.  Now, I’m tired again, but 
new old friends help me fight off the weary blues.

 

For my prompt "A Weekend with friends" at What's Going On? 


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© 2025 Susan L. Chast

15 comments:

  1. Sounds like a good day!

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  2. I'm 22, so my "old" friends aren't very old - but still there's nothing like getting together with them and remembering the good times, and the commonalities that made you friends in the first place :)

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  3. It is true that there is something very special about old friends such as Paul. Someone who knew you way back when. Someone who knew your history. Someone with whom you had shared stories and experiences. I get it! I get out this could invigorate, awaken, bring joy. Indeed there is beauty in new friends too. But it is never just QUITE the same!

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  4. What a wonderful, heart-lifting visit! Nothing like old friends who knew us when..........sigh. I love knowing you are so happy in your new community too.

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    1. p.s. And I am feeling that bone-deep weariness, too.

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  5. I Love the pleasing calmness that comes out of your words. But in between there's MAGA politics. "...but /
    new old friends help me fight off the weary blues." Understandable. Friends are God's gift.

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  6. I loved listening to the Simon and Garfunkel song, which I haven’t heard for years, Susan, and enjoyed your poem just as much. There’s nothing as cosy as a gathering of old friends. The lines that spoke to me are:
    ‘…Half my weariness
    vanished in anticipation, and all left with
    their warm welcome and the cool winter air
    when I opened the door…’
    and
    ‘New friends and acquaintances make me welcome,
    but there is nothing like old-time friends to infuse
    a tired spirit with love. Now, I’m tired again, but
    new old friends help me fight off the weary blues.’

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  7. Friends can give a big boost for what needs, and for the giver. We are in a Churches Sunday morning senior Bible class with over 150 members. None real close friends but friendly with about a half.
    (Second Baptist Church Houston has six campuses with over 80,000 registered members, . . . )

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  8. What a heart- warming story - I am glad you were awakened from the weariness- Jae

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  9. Good friends who "see" us...recharge our hearts and minds... with everyone so wrapped up in their own lives, these visits become so precious.

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  10. So pleased you are happy in your new abode and that you enjoyed your visit with your old friends.

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  11. It is always wonderful when friends stop by for a visit. Thanks for sharing you excitement and the renewal of your weariness.

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  12. Yes I know the feeling when unexpected guests arrive and you go like a whirlwind through the house and everything comes alive Wonderful Oh and I love 'the quiet sweetness of the children' Always

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  13. How lovely to catch up with old friends and enjoy time together, Susan! We recently had some vists from Europe and it was such a wonderful time to catch up after a few years!

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  14. Sounds like a wonderful time, Susan. My oldest friend lives in a different state, and we have not been able
    to get together for some time now. When I hear her voice on the phone, I am back with her in my 20's.

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